Loving Detachment
You’ve heard me talk about Loving Detachment many times before, and if you haven’t, it’s time to listen up!
Attachment is the root of all angst. It is why we spend endless valuable hours worrying about things that are completely out of our control. We waste precious time fretting over situations, people, and commodities…. because of what??? You guessed it…. Attachment.
When I began loving detaching from people’s choices, I also detached from the judgement of their choices. When I detached from wanting and needing to save people from themselves, fear and worry began to fall away. Loving someone and being attached to them and their choices are two very different things. Attachment is fear based and love it not.
Society teaches us that if we value someone, we show them love by worrying about them, telling them what is best, and being all up in their business. Now I don’t know about you, but I can’t think of a single time that it paid off when I tried to control a situation through worry and fretting that someone was going to make a bad decision for themselves. Don’t get me wrong……have I done it? YES! Many, many times. Did it help anything? NO, absolutely not!
The hardest loving detachments are definitely familial and detachments that affect our worth, like making career changes and big moves. And y’all know that I have done all of these! While not easy, releasing attachment allows for others to take responsibility for the choices they make, and allows them to experience the lessons that they need in order to grow. It relieves us from owning the outcomes of what others choose to do, and keeps us honest and responsible for what it is that we choose in our life. Furthermore, familial attachments affects our lower three chakras and show up energetically and physically in the body. Foot, knee, or hip pain. Low back pain and digestive issues. Lack of confidence and feelings of unworthiness are all common symptoms of familial attachments.
Learning how to lovingly detach is a choice that means that you have to be willing to let go of control. That’s right….all of you control freaks (and recovering control freaks), it starts with releasing control and moving into flow. This takes lots of practice, but the beautiful thing with this process is that it does get easier each time you choose to let go. When you let go and you let people and situations run it’s natural course, you save yourself from all the discomfort that comes along with worrying. Because why? WORRY is a WASTED emotion! It does nothing but make you feel unwell, steals your present joy, and does not positively affect the outcome of an event!
Our Angel Numbers for today, 828 and 2228 speak to this fact LOUD & CLEAR! 828 brings a message to focus on what it is that you really want to achieve. Pour your energy into what you want to experience as it is in this space that you will invite success. Success depends upon your attitude, your way of thinking, taking affirmative action, and taking responsibility for the outcomes in your life. Have the desire and intention, make the decision to take action, then do it. Take a leap of faith and trust that your inner-guidance system will lead you in the right direction. Putting your focus into where you would like to go in life and what you want to achieve will leave you little time to waste on attaching to what is happening outside of your bubble. Angel Number 828 is an indication that one door is beginning to open, and another is about to close. Be sure to listen to your intuition closely as it will guide your steps to positive and steady abundance and prosperity during these changes.
Angel Number 2228 is a message that is encouraging you to believe that you are worthy of receiving success, abundance and prosperity into your life as it is your Divine birthright. 2228 also tells you to measure the vibrations you emit as ‘like attracts like’. The vibrations or energies you send out are made up of your conscious and unconscious energies, and you attract into life the situations, experiences and people that have a similar energy or vibration. The Universe provides a mirror so that you are able to see the reflection of the energies and vibrations you are emitting. So…..guess what? When you are experiencing “bad luck” or things seem to be going wrong all at the same time….The Universe is trying to get your attention that there is something that is out of whack! Your thoughts and actions are not congruent with your desires. It’s an energetic kick in the ass to make some changes! When you adjust your thoughts, attitude, and actions from negative and low vibrational to positive and high frequency, the situations around you will change. It has to because ‘like attracts like’! And if it doesn’t, take the time to investigate what negative ideas and thoughts you are still attached to regarding the situation. Remember that everything is a choice. Your choice! This is where your power lies. Use it wisely!
Hugs + Health
Xoxo ~D
Dina specializes in Energy Shifting through Clinical Hypnotherapy and energetic modalities that she has studied and practiced over the course of her 30 plus year career. If you are struggling with a situation, not sure how to make changes, or you don’t know where to begin or what you need to feel better; connect with Dina.
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